deird1: Faith, with text " 'sup, bitches?" (Faith bitches)
So... yay. It turns out I have breast cancer.

Quite an early stage of breast cancer. And it hasn't spread or anything yet. But... yeah. That new suspicious-feeling lump in my breast is in fact cancerous, and I'm going to have to have it removed. Assuming our hospitals have enough space during the current Covid outbreak.


(Stress over "weird unidentifiable lump" has meant I've ignored my flist here for the last month. Trying to catch up now, but I'm sorry if I miss anything important.)

Dammit.

Nov. 24th, 2021 07:31 pm
deird1: Dawn glaring at Buffy, with text "Dawn Summers demands an explanation for this bullshit" (Dawn bullshit)
For those of you keeping track, the husband has been in Detroit for the last couple of weeks, on business. Today, I got two phonecalls from him.

Call 1: "Hi! It looks like I'm going to be home on Saturday! Looking forward to seeing you!"

Call 2: "So, you know how I need a negative Covid test to get on the plane? Yeah…"

The husband is stuck in Detroit. In a hotel. With Covid. And I am on the other side of the world, still taking care of two kids, still powerless to help.



(Yes, he has been vaccinated. So here's hoping.)
deird1: Buffy and the rocket launcher, with text "best present ever" (Buffy rocket launcher)
Excuse me while I briefly go religious and political simultaneously:

Honour physicians for their services, for the Lord created them. … The skill of physicians makes them distinguished, and in the presence of the great they are admired. … The Lord created medicines out of the earth, and the sensible will not despise them. … He gave skill to human beings that he might be glorified in his marvellous works. … My child, when you are ill, do not delay, but pray to the Lord, and he will heal you. … Then give the physician his place, for the Lord created him; do not let him leave you, for you need him. There may come a time when recovery lies in the hands of physicians, for they too pray to the Lord that he will grant them success in diagnosis and in healing, for the sake of preserving life. He who sins against his Maker will be defiant towards the physician.
Sirach 38:1–15



In other words: "Stop ignoring doctors and insisting God will heal you! God gave you doctors and medicine! What else do you want?"
deird1: Tara crying over Willow's betrayal (Tara betrayal)
We have a week-long erasable calendar on our wall, to fill in the kids' activities. In a normal week, it'll include things like "school", "piano", "church", "gym". You get the idea.

A couple of weeks ago, I had a moment of utter despair, erased the lot, and wrote "ENDLESS LOCKDOWN" across the calendar.

It still says that.

And now, because of the stupidity of some of my fellow Melburnians, we've got another two weeks of lockdown, with added benefits like "curfew!" and "playgrounds closed!".

I just… can't right now.
deird1: Faith looking thoughtful, with text "deep thought" (Faith thought)
Writing this down so that I remember, as much as any other reason.


What happened in Melbourne last year

The year started off as usual, with hot sunny days, the beginning of school, and half the country on fire.

I got concerned enough about the smoke to purchase facemasks on the internet.

China had another weird virus again, and we all watched the YouTube videos of them killing time while stuck in their houses for weeks.


Then came the end of the world. (For reference see: every country in the whole world, around about March.)

and on it went )


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Nov. 9th, 2020 04:36 pm
deird1: the kidlet, looking oh so cute (kidlet with hat)
After having had 45 elected on the day of my daughter's birth, it was nicely fitting that her fourth birthday was the day they finally called this year's election.

Kidlet Primus is now 6! Kidlet Secunda is now 4! And our house is once again overflowing with birthday cake and wrapping paper.

It's weird not having toddlers any more. A few years ago, the presents of choice were crayons and stickers. This year, it's nerf guns and lego.



In mostly unrelated news, we're now (finally) out of lockdown. Although visitors still have to be spread out, and the masks are still compulsory - which I'm actually fine with.

The kids are back at school/kinder, and starting to get their regular lives back. Although I doubt we'll go back to swimming lessons for quite a while - which is a shame, because Secunda was only just starting them, and misses them a lot. Primus, on the other hand, doesn't care at all about swimming, but has been requesting gymnastics lessons (ever since he saw a parkour video) - so we might give those a go.

Still waiting to see if church starts up again. I hope so - although it will be very odd having stuff scheduled on Sunday mornings again.
deird1: Mother Gothel, swooning dramatically (Gothel swoon)
So, my house now has unclean water. (Along with half the other houses in Melbourne.)

For the record, that puts our current status at:
- in a curfew
- unable to travel more than 5 km away from home
- compulsory wearing of masks
- can't leave home for more than an hour a day
- only supermarkets and pharmacies open, everything else shut
- doing school at home, via conferencing apps
- boiling all tapwater before drinking

...does this officially qualify as living in interesting times?



I am coping with life mainly by rewatching Stargate. This is my first rewatch since the first epic watching that spawned my Stargate Is Annoying Me tag, back in LJ days. While I still agree with all my previous gripes, I'm enjoying myself a lot more.

For one thing, I'm aware of what's coming, so the Vegemite Effect is no longer a factor.
Also, I've discovered that the show was given an initial two-season guarantee, and they decided to slow-play the arcs and spend time getting to know the characters. This pleases me, and I can see how it affected the show, so I'm okay with them doing it that way.
But mainly... I know what's coming! I know we're going to get zat guns! And Thor! And Baal! And spaceships! And exploding suns! And Rodney! And replicators! And fun and silly sci-fi!

I kinda love this show.
deird1: Dawn drinking a milkshake (Dawn milkshake)
Haven't got anything major to post, but I thought I'd give a general update on my life...

Pandemicville

The kidlets are back at school/kinder. Otherwise everything is still cancelled. Most of that's fine, but I am desperately missing:
1) church
2) my roleplaying group


Musical Aspirations

After a lot of consideration, I have taken the plunge and bought a button accordion. When it arrives I will (briefly) be the proud owner of THREE accordions - before selling my second piano accordion. Then I just need to figure out how on earth one plays a button accordion...


Cinema and so forth

I have been watching The Good Place, and enjoying it much more than I thought I would. (Only bought the first season because I saw a five-second clip of Ted Danson smiling evilly, which greatly impressed me.)

Also, SBS has been rebroadcasting Stargate, so I'm watching that on a weekly basis as new episodes become available. I'm currently being weirded out by the early-episode differences (no ray guns, no spaceships, no Thor, no crystals), and also very annoyed by it (there is a reason my LJ has a Stargate is Annoying Me tag).

Meanwhile, my friends gifted me a Disney+ subscription. So while I am waiting for Hamilton, I'm watching all the MCU movies that I never got around to seeing. They're quite fun, for the most part.


The Kidlets

Both are lovely, charming, and delightful individuals. Both are also currently banished outside on serious time out because they are ANNOYING. School holidays have only just started, and I expect to be utterly crazy by the end of them.
deird1: Anya, with text "is it difficult or time-consuming?" (Anya difficult)
When I was 16, I was totally going to get married at 22, have four kids, and homeschool them. Then my plans changed.

The getting married at 22 changed by me being utterly single for a decade.

The four kids dropped down to three kids (once I got some common sense), and then to two (once I got pregnant the first time and discovered how terrible it was).

The homeschooling was an idea I'd already discarded - but then I was confirmed in my decision by how much I lose my temper when trying to teach my son things. Absolutely, definitely, one hundred percent no way I was going to homeschool.

...and then my plans changed. Again.

It should be noted, for our studio audience, that I am in a fairly ideal position to homeschool:
- I have the time.
- I have the support system.
- I have actually done some classroom teaching before.
- I came damn close to doing a Masters in Education.
- I know the topics backwards. (Not hard. He's in Prep - so right now he's learning about opposites, vowels, and writing the alphabet.)

It's going really well! Somehow, I'm keeping my temper, and not getting horribly frustrated every time he doesn't try, and he, for the most part, is actually trying! Huzzah!

In the last few weeks, we have read things, written things, learnt maths, art, music, and PE, and had Cooking Lessons From Mum as an extra! (The boy can now make cake, and pancakes.)

That being said, I will be SO VERY GLAD when he's back at school again.
deird1: Mother Gothel, swooning dramatically (Gothel swoon)
I feel like Rilla at the start of the novel.

pandemics, and so forth )
deird1: Dawn raising an eyebrow, with text "srsly?" (Dawn srsly)
Aussies really suck at prepping.

Apparently every supermarket in the entire country is now sold out of toilet paper. My local supermarket certainly is. They're also sold out of flour, spaghetti, rice, bread, and long-life milk.

They're not sold out of dried lentils/chickpeas/beans, or dried soup mix, or dried fruit, or canned vegetables/fruit.

Apparently everyone in Australia thinks that one should spend food shortages having nothing but plain white carbohydrates – in which case they'll all be so constipated that I'm not sure why they'll need so much toilet paper.

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