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I just read an article on breastfeeding, which contained the following:
What I don’t get and strongly un-concur with is why a woman would choose to graphically breastfeed her baby in a crowded city café at lunchtime.


Graphically. She is graphically breastfeeding. Much as I graphically got myself a cup of tea, graphically bought a train ticket, and graphically edited documents this morning. Horrors! *swoons*


Presumably the writer isn't trying for the ordinary, everyday use of "graphically" (of, or relating to, pictorial representation), but is instead going for the more colloquial usage ("This movie contains GRAPHIC violence, GRAPHIC pornography, and GRAPHIC puppy slaughter!!!!").

Really, either definition renders his point kind of nonsensical.

Under the first, he's complaining about her "graphically" breastfeeding because she should, like all new mothers, have the decency to acquire powers of invisibility so that her breastfeeding cannot be drawn or photographed.
Under the second, he's comparing a woman feeding her child to... mass puppy slaughter, orgies, and mayhem. Which is ridiculous.


Actually, come to think of it, he probably is going for the first meaning. After all, wouldn't it be nice if all women acquired mystical powers of invisibility, so that they didn't have to sit there and remind him that breasts exist?





Postscript

The writer also said:
I understand the evolutionary purpose of breasts, that they shouldn’t be sexualized, I get the whole feeding is natural, women shouldn’t be ashamed, blah blah, I get and concur with all of that.


In that case, what the heck is the problem? He's basically saying "Yes, breastfeeding is natural and shouldn't be shameful - but how dare you do it in public?!"

His whole disclaimer comes across as a "no offence, but..." which is really nothing more than a get-out-of-jail-free card when he then starts offending people.

Date: 2012-04-03 07:02 pm (UTC)
cheyinka: A sleeping sheep and a sleeping unborn lamb with the shared thought bubble "Dreamwidth". (baaaaaby)
From: [personal profile] cheyinka
Yeah, the disclaimer really is a "No offense, but you should have to hide while your child eats, lest someone staring at you catch a glimpse of your nipple and resent your child's access to that nipple, even though I wouldn't want that nipple anyway because milk would come out, grossssss!" kind of thing.

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