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deird1 ([personal profile] deird1) wrote2011-02-02 09:33 am
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How do you refer to people?

Just a poll, because I'm wondering if being in a different country makes a big difference to this...

(Ignore the "dear" if that's not what you'd say - I just put it there because it's the start of a letter.)


Poll #5814 forms of address
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 29


At work, you're writing a letter to John Smith, whom you've never met. You start...

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Dear Mr Smith
22 (78.6%)

Dear John Smith
2 (7.1%)

Dear John
1 (3.6%)

Dear Mr John Smith
0 (0.0%)

Dear Sir
3 (10.7%)

At work, you're writing a letter to John Smith, whom you've met several times. You start...

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Dear Mr Smith
13 (44.8%)

Dear John Smith
2 (6.9%)

Dear John
13 (44.8%)

Dear Mr John Smith
0 (0.0%)

Dear Sir
1 (3.4%)

At work, you're writing an email to John Smith, whom you've never met. You start...

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Dear Mr Smith
18 (62.1%)

Dear John Smith
1 (3.4%)

Dear John
7 (24.1%)

Dear Mr John Smith
0 (0.0%)

Dear Sir
3 (10.3%)

At work, you're writing an email to John Smith, whom you've met several times. You start...

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Dear Mr Smith
4 (14.3%)

Dear John Smith
0 (0.0%)

Dear John
23 (82.1%)

Dear Mr John Smith
0 (0.0%)

Dear Sir
1 (3.6%)

It makes a difference if you're...

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not at work
20 (69.0%)

writing to Jane Smith instead of John
4 (13.8%)

an inferior, a superior, or an equal
18 (62.1%)

trying to be polite
14 (48.3%)

talking to them face-to-face
18 (62.1%)




Questions? Comments?
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[personal profile] quinara 2011-02-01 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd probably get people assuming I was snobby, aloof, and unfriendly. Mostly I'd start with "John -"

See, to me, a name without anything preceding it comes across as abrupt and slightly rude!

[identity profile] swellen.livejournal.com 2011-02-02 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Almost without fail, when I get an email that starts with just my first name and no salutation, it's from someone who is annoyed and wants to complain about something. So my back goes up immediately when I see that!