Good lord. Guy has a hit book and thinks he can tell the world how it should work. This sounds an awful lot like that John Eldridge crap that was going around a while ago - Wild at Heart and the truly disastrous Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul. Both books had basically this same message to this - men are active and adventurous and the best way to be happy if you are a woman is to wait quietly at home, practicing virtue and keeping things spotless until the man of your dreams comes along. Miller sounds, if possible, even more offensive.

PS - Before you decide to give the world pompous advice on the perfect marriage, maybe you like to wait until you've actually gotten married? Just an idea

And I spilled my tea 'cause I laughed too hard.